How to Recognise Where Your Marriage is Vulnerable to an Affair
When Don and Susan* arrived for their first therapy session, they chose to sit next to each other on the office couch but were clearly uncomfortable. ...
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Setting Godly boundaries in marriage
Just as God drew a boundary to protect Adam and Eve, setting clear boundaries in marriage safeguards us from temptation and cultivates deeper ...
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Restoring your marriage after admitting to infidelity
Maybe you're thinking, How did I get here? Or maybe you deliberately sought comfort outside your marriage. Here are tips to help you pursue healing ...
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Marital Infidelity: Recovery for both wounded spouses
Infidelity is a pain that's far too common to far too many. If you're dealing with a cheating spouse or admitting that you are a cheating spouse, ...
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Recovering from an Affair
Note to the reader: Over the years we’ve counselled hundreds of couples who are grappling with the aftermath of marital infidelity. While the ...
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How to have a shame-free marriage
Dennis and Stephanie* shared with me that their relationship had slowly grown cold over the last nine years. They couldn’t pinpoint a reason, but ...
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Friends with consequences: Digital infidelity via social media
Karen was just going about her day when she logged into her Facebook account and saw a private message from Richard. They casually dated back in high ...
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Just discovered that spouse has had an affair
Q. I've just discovered that my spouse has been cheating on me. As you can imagine, I was devastated when I first learned of his infidelity, and I ...
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Extramarital Affairs: Can there be a second chance?
Though difficult, recovery is still within reach Most couples enter marriage with intention of savouring long-lasting marital bliss. Nobody expects ...
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Avoiding dangerous attractions
At a company convention, Christine ran into an old university professor. She had admired his teaching skills and loved being his assistant in the ...
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The three stages of post-affair restoration
Who could have known it would come to this – that the person with whom you’ve pledged your life, shared your bed and bared your soul would be ...
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The danger of emotional affairs
Jake has been married to Kim for four years and feels good about how their relationship is going, except for their lack of time together. He admits ...
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